One thing that I thought he'd actually give a fuck about talking with me about failed. I asked if he knew when NK closed borders to USA, and he shrugged and said "I dunno." I found out by a quick Google search, and he said, "Oh." Then I told him that I was listening to a podcast between someone from a defector of NK and a US citizen who visited NK in the last decade. "Okay." That is SO not like him, and it makes me half-wonder if he relapsed, is cheating, or gave up on lur relationship. The other part of me just knows he's fucking rotting his brain on Facebook or Instagram reels, so he doesn't care about real people.